Parents start teaching your children the importance of independence and being responsible adults! There’s no way in hell your grown ass child should be staying with you, if they’re not doing anything productive in life! Smoking, drinking and fighting should be the least of their worries if they’re not out here working, going to school or doing something productive with their time! I’m raising a young queen and a king, I’ll be damn if my children aren’t successful! You’re a reflection of your child, & what you allow to happen in your home is what they’ll be doing outside of it! Period! This shit starts at home, FIRST!