When is enough, Enough? 

I’ve been asked the question: when is enough, enough? I believe that enough is enough, when you start to feel like nothing is working or the situation isn’t changing and you feel yourself becoming emotionally drained with a person/situation! When you get to that point where there’s nothing else for you to do, & you don’t have anymore fight in you… Then that’s when enough is enough! 

Many times we find ourselves fighting for a relationship, friendship, job or whatever because we love these people/things, & we tend to hold on to these things when we know they mean us NO good! We tend not to check ourselves in the process, we don’t check our self love or value because we tend to stay because these are just things we can’t let go of. We stay because this is the only love that we know and also because we fear the thought of starting over with someone/something new! We tend to settle for mediocre love, when we know we deserve someone/something better than what we’re receiving!

I guess the only thing I can tell anyone, if they’re faced with this situation is to do whatever it is you feel is best for you! If you feel like you’re emotionally and physically drained from this person or a situation, then it’s time to reevaluate the situation and choose happiness over misery! You’re not entitled to be with someone, or be somewhere you’re not feeling loved or valued! If you’re the only one trying to make things work, & you don’t feel the same with your partner because you feel as though they’ve mentally and emotionally checked out the relationship, then let it go! There’s nothing more you can do, because you’ve already did all you can do during the relationship! 


Author: Takeia.

Hello beautiful souls, I'm Takeia Cage, and I'm the CEO/Founder of Unashamed Queens! I'm an advocate, momtrepreneur, life coach, and motivational blogger. I have always been dedicated to helping women re-discover their light, while walking in their truth, unashamed! It wasn’t until I was in my early twenties, when I discovered my calling to be an advocate for the women in my community. I have always wanted to be apart of a sisterhood that supported, uplifted, and celebrated women without us feeling judged or even ashamed of our journey. There wasn’t many women empowerment groups in my community that actually focused on celebrating queens, so I decided to create my own community for unashamed women. Now I am the founder of Unashamed Queens, a women’s empowerment group that focuses on supporting, uplifitng, and celebrating queenhood. I would always tell myself years ago that you can’t help anyone if you can’t help yourself, and today I believe that statement is so untrue. It wasn’t until I was re-discovering my own light, that I wanted to also encourage/help other women to re-discover theirs as well. I truly believe that we’re all stronger together, and that creating a safe-space for women to feel support and loved through sisterhood.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s